So by the time you are on around your fourth date, you might start to have the feeling that this person is the right one for you.  Hopefully, by this time you have a good idea that your feelings are reciprocated.  What is the next step?  The next step is to confirm that you both want to move ahead into a more committed relationship.  Is there an easy way to do this?  Absolutely!  You can simply ask.  The more your dance around the question then the harder it will be to get to it.

What if it turns out that she isn’t the one?  That can be a rough turn of events.  Sometimes, people have other commitments and the only thing that you can do is either just continue dating, see where it goes, or move on.  It could just be a bad time for him or her right now and they could use a little time.

Finding out that you were mistaken doesn’t have to be the end of the world.  It could just mean that you have been closer than ever before that you have been to finding the one that is right for you.